Saturday, June 16, 2007

unfortunate happening

This is Daisy's daughter Lydia writing.

It is with much sadness that I inform you all that unfortunately my Mum passed away this morning.

She has been ill throughout this week becoming increasing weak and confused by last night. Last night we had decided to get her into hospital this morning however this was too late as this morning I discovered her. My dad had been sleeping in a seperate room to enable her proper rest. We do not yet know the official cause of death. She has been taken away and most likely a post mortem will be carried out on Monday.

She spoke of her blog to me often and the friends she had made through this. I really wanted to find a way to let you all know.

If anybody would like to contact us please leave a comment and I'll give you my email address.

Lots of love

Lydia xxx

59 comments:

Kai said...

Aloha Lydia.
I just spoke with Lisa..I have no words left. I had only met your mum once, but felt we had a special bond.
Peace and sympathy to you all there.
Peace, Kai.

mrsnesbitt said...

Lydia, Lisa has just phoned me from California and like Kai, can not find words.
I met up with your mum too and what a wonderful, caring person she was.
I am in North Yorkshire, just outside Whitby.
My e-mail number is..
denise.nesbitt@btinternet.com

Sending our deepest sympathy to you all.

Dxxx

Sue said...

Hi Lydia,
Mrs. Nesbitt (Denise) just rang me with this terrible news. I'm so, so sorry to hear it. You poor darling you must feel in shock. Words can't express how we feel. We met your mum at Thirsk when we had a Glitter Sisters meeting there, she was a wonderful lady who took everything in her stride. My husband died suddenly in 1999 and I can empathise on how you feel. At the moment probably numbness. If you every need to talk please feel free to email me for my number. I will light a candle for you and your dad tonight and ask that the Glitter Sisters do the same. Sending lots of hugs to you all.

Love and light Sue in North yorkshire
xxx

LisaOceandreamer said...

I cannot put my feelings in to words Lydia. I read your post this morning a few times, thinking I read it wrong. I had not met your mom in person but still I cared very deeply for her...for so many reasons. I send you my heartfelt sympathy, my deepest regrets for this loss. A loss that will be felt by so many.
Thank you Lydia for letting us know, I know that had to be so terribly difficult.Please extend this to your father and brother as well. You were all such a joy to her.
XOXO
Lisa
oceandreamer1@comcast.net

Autumn said...

I am so sorry to hear this news. I did not get the change to meet your mom or correspond with her privatly, but did read her blog. She seemed like a wonderful caring person and I will very much miss her blog. May you and your family find peace along the way in this sad time
Patty of Autumns Meadow
autumnsbutterfly@yahoo.com

altermyworld said...

My heart breaks for you, I was your mums Sharpie friend, i had just sent her the whole pack, it was a lovely meeting of the mind, for all things Sharpies. Please know you mum was loved in many many ways.
Ang

Tina Diva said...

Dear Lydia
I didn't know your mum, but my best friend Claire is one of her blogging friends and they met up earlier this year with some of the other Glitter Sisters in Thirsk. I know Claire adored your mum and will be devasted to hear this news. Claire is herself in hospital after suffering a stoke some weeks ago. I'm sending thoughts and empathy on her behalf.

Tina B xx

Sheila said...

Lydia, I cannot find the words to say how shocked and saddened I am by your Mum's passing.
We had recently exchanged a flurry of emails, about our favourite books...
I can't believe this news.
My heartfelt sympathy is with you and your father and brother.
We have lost a dear and treasured member of this community..
xoxo

judie said...

I'm so sorry Lydia. I am in total shock. I cannot believe this what I read. Daisy was very special. Hugs to you and your family.

craftyhala said...

Wow,i only knew your Mom through her blog and she'd visit mine...she always made me smile.
My Dad passed last July and I have been feeling sad for a time now and well...
My family is sending you our hugs and our deepest sympathy.
Be well,
Mahala

Kate said...

Lydia,
What words can anyone say at a time like this. We all try but feel so inadequate. Just know that your mom was loved by so many who never even met her. I loved reading her blog and sharing a friendship through email and participating in all our wonderful swaps. She will be missed terribly by all of us.

Sending love and hugs to you and your family....
Kate from Idaho in the US

Gemma said...

Dearest Sweetpea...
Over the past year I have gotten to be friends with your Mum through blogs and eMails. She is someone that I felt very close to here.
I am shocked!!!!
My heart is very heavy.

PG said...

Daisy Lupin will be missed by so many people, she was a sweet and wonderful person and will not be forgotten. How like here to post on her blog when she was so desperately ill. Please accept my sympathy and thoughts.

Gretel

Julie Marie said...

I am in total shock. There are tears running down my face for a friend I've never met. I was introduced to her through her blogs just a few months ago. Her blog was among the first I'd read every day. She sent such kind comments to me. I hope you do not close down her blog as I would still like to re-visit it.

Julie Fredericksen
Bismarck, ND

Blue the Spa Girl said...

Lydia I am so very deeply saddened by the loss of your mum...I cannot imagine the pain it must have caused you to lose the woman who was so immensely PROUD of YOU! Who spoke nothing but beautiful kind words of you, I think you must have been the light of her life. She adored you. She made sure we all knew it too, through her blogging.
I am so very sorry for yours and your family's loss, please accept my condolences.
Blog land won't be the same without your mum's poetry events and storytelling events...
Much love and light,
Blue The Spa Girl.
xox

talj said...

Dear Lydia and all of Daisy's family and friends, I just want to extend my sympathy to you all at this sad time.

My thoughts and prayers are with you {{HUGS}} from Leeds xx

Tinker said...

Dear Lydia,
I think of you as SweetPea since that is how your sweet mum would always refer to you - I have been crying for the last 15 minutes since I read the news on Violettes message board and I am still in shock, I can only imagine how shocked and saddened you and your family must be. My heart goes out to you all. Even though we only knew each other through blogging and e-mails, her words conveyed so much wisdom, love and beauty and meant so much to me and so many others. It was always evident in her words about you and all of her family, how much love and pride she had in all of you. I hope it helps a little, to know how much she was loved by so many others in the world, who will be sorely missing her, too.

Sending loving, healing thoughts of peace and light to all of you.
Many, many (((HUGS))) to you all. XOXO

smilnsigh said...
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smilnsigh said...

Lydia, I never had the pleasure of knowing your mother. I just read of her passing, in Sheila's 'As Time Goes By' blog.

From what Sheila wrote, your mother was a wonderful woman and a wonderful blogger. My heart goes out to you and your father and whole family...at such a sad, sad time. I don't have any other words.. Just my usual...

Hugs to you all,
Mari-Nanci

Angela said...

SHOCK! :( I'm soooooo sorry for your loss!!!I absolutely do not know what to say. I am so sorry! She will certainly be missed!
You are in my thoughts and prayers!
*HUGS*
Angela

Mama Kelly said...

I am so sorry. My condolences to you and your family.

Mama Kelly

Ninnie said...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I loved your Moms views and thoughts. I was in the doll swap with her and am so glad her doll I made her last month made it to her. She was such a wonderful woman. Love Hugs and Blessings to you all.

lila said...

What a great loss for you and all of us!
You are in our thoughts!

Meow said...

I never had the chance to get to know your mother through blogging, only read of this sad news through Autumn's blog.
I would like to extend my sincere condolences to you and your whole family. It must be a terrible shock.
Take care, Meow

LisaOceandreamer said...

posting this for another blogger who can't get this page to load:

"I am incredibly shocked and so very sorry to hear the sad news of Daisy's passing. I have posted a tribute to her on my blog. My heart goes out to her family ..please know that you are in my prayers." Pam Aries www.artaries.blogspot.com

Susie Q said...

Please accept my love and condolences on this terrible loss to your family.
Your Mum was an amazing woman...I only knew here through this blog and even then, only just recently. This is my great loss. I feel such a sadness for you all and for all her friends in blogland who loved and adored her. She lived a life of purpose and joy and love. She was a blessing to all who knew her.
I will keep you all in my prayers and thoughts.

Many hugs,
Sue

Peggy said...

I am so very sorry to read about your mom's passing. What a blessing to have had such a wonderful lady for a mom! My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Peggy happe2b50@yahoo.com

Arty Lady's blog said...

Lydia, I do not know what to say. My deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you and your family as this extremely sad time.

tlc illustration said...

I am also incredibly saddened by this news. She felt like one of my instinctual-soul friends - we had so many mutual passions and interests.

I will miss her blog-presence very much.

Hugs to your family.

Tara

Rowan said...

I received the news of your mum's paasing in an e-mail from Sheila this morning. I am stunned by the news and so sorry that such a lovely lady is lost to us. I shall miss her wise and knowledgeable posts. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Gypsy Purple said...

My thoughts are with you all.....such terrible sad news.....she will be truly missed!!!!!!!!!!

Lynda (Granny K) said...

Lydia, My deepest sympathy on the loss of your mum, a unique and very special person. I loved to read her blog every day, she will be missed so much. I am so upset for your family and for us.

fp said...

So, so sorry. I have read your mums blog often and she always came across as a warm and loving person. My thoughts are with you and your family.
XXX

Gemma said...

How are you doing? You are in my prayers...we are all still hurting. I eMailed you @ hilomac
but also want to leave my email here:
lrmanz@aol.com
love and sympathy
Gemma

Janet said...

I just came over this morning (the 17th) to see how Daisy was doing and read the terrible news. I can't say anything right now....I'm crying too much.

violette said...

I am so devastated to hear of your Mom's passing. Oh my gosh....she was such a dear sweet soul. I keep rubbing the quilt piece she made for my birthday thinking that feeling the art will maybe bring her back or at least make me feel her presence.

My heartfelt condolences go to you and your family.

Your mom will be so dearly missed.

Love,
Violette

Carmen said...

Sweet Pea: Your mother empower me to believe in myself and do many many things including poetry. I will be thankful to her forever.

hollibobolli said...

I found your blog through Paris. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Many blessings for your family during this time.

JudiRedhead said...

Please know that we loved your Mother and the Glitter Girls are all heart broken. She was such an inspiration to me. It's hard for me to comprehend how things like this happen. Prayers and gentle thoughts coming from West Virginia, USA
JudiRedhead

Lisa said...

I know your mum through Peggy and I'm so very sorry to hear this. Words cannot express what you're feeling. Thoughts from Kansas are with you.

Bimbimbie said...

Hello Lydia, I've only recently "met" your mum via her wonderful blog and I am shocked and saddened to read your post. Her warmth, knowledge and love for her family was written clear and proud for everyone in her blogging world to see. Annie

Naturegirl said...

I am so extremely shocked and filled with sadness in reading this news!Dasiy touched my heart deeply and I felt a
closeness to her even though we were
miles apart!
She was a ~Special~ spirit within our blog community. She touched many!
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.hugging you NG

Cre8Tiva said...

lydia...my heart and prayers are with your family...what a lovely soul you mother is...the world is sad...blessings, rebecca

Suzie Q said...

I am so very sorry to hear of your Mum's passing, Lydia. I thoroughly enjoyed reading her blog, and was always intrigued by the beautiful illustrations she found to add to her incredible knowledge. I learned a lot from her. She will be sorely missed by many, and I hope you can take some comfort from the knowledge that many many people will be thinking of you at this very sad time.
Wishing you Peace,
Suze xXx

Marci said...

I am so sorry. I know how you feel. On October 18, 2005, my very healthy Mom, never woke up. It is such a shock. I will pray that you feel God's presence through this time ahead.

nicci said...

Lydia,

I am so sorry to hear of your news.
I send your family and friends my love and compassion.

Nicci

C. H. Green said...

My condolences on your loss. May you find peace during the storm.

Dotee said...

Lydia, I was not a frequent visitor to your mum's blog. But when I did visit I was struck by her kind heart and love of this earth.

I am very sad to hear of your mum's passing. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Dotee from Australia xx

The Herbalist said...

So terribly sorry to hear your sad news. Daisy will be sadly missed. We seemed to have a special bond sharing a name, Love and blessins to you all Hilary

ladysnail said...

hello lydia
i have just read the sad news about your mum on gp's blog. i have only visited your mum's blog a couple of times and read about her on other people's blogs many times-comments she left etc. she will be missed very much.
dx

jessica said...

dear lydia,
so sorry for your loss.
may you and your family be at peace.
jessica

CattyCat said...

Lydia and family: I have been busy with health issues myself and so only today have read this unfortunate news. My heart goes out to you and the family. Your mother was right at the center of what is a large community here. She will be missed in ways words cannot express. Bless you for letting us know.

Fiona said...

My thoughts go out to you and your family at this time. Your mum's blog was special and touched so many people. She will be missed.

IRENE said...

Hello,
I have just landed here, following links. I wandered around for awhile. It is so sad that such a special person left. Yet she must have been a darling to the gods for passing away like that.
Wishing her a beautiful trip. And to you, the sweet richness of her presence.

Golden Granny said...

Lydia
I am so sorry about your mum. We made friends in our blogs and I have a quilt square that she made in a quilt swap. I will cherish that square and will remember her great art and writings. May God give you and your father the strenght to get through the loss of your mum. I know when you loose your mum you loose your best friend. You and your family will be in my prayers.
God Bless you
Lottie

Alice said...

Dear Lydia - I have only just learned of the passing of your dear mother. This is such a shock.

I hope you are now able to be at peace with your sad loss, and that all the wonderful memories you have of your mother will sustain you in the months ahead.

Rachel said...

Lydia,
I am so very sad to hear news of your mum's sudden death.I dropped in occasionally to her blog and always found it such a refreshing, inspiring and creative place to spend time.
She was a gem and will be very much missed by all of us who read her pages and felt her presence.
Thinking of you
Ray

Rachel said...

Lydia,
I am so very sad to hear news of your mum's sudden death.I dropped in occasionally to her blog and always found it such a refreshing, inspiring and creative place to spend time.
She was a gem and will be very much missed by all of us who read her pages and felt her presence.
Thinking of you
Ray

Salix Tree said...

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. I'm in shock, actually.
I come by here occasionally, and haven't been for a long while, and hadn't seen her messages anywhere for some time, so thought I would drop by and say hello. Daisy's blog has been wonderful to read, and she will be missed by many. She seemed an inspiring and creative person.
Sending love to your family.
Peace, Salix